The Great Text...

I received a text message from a great friend on Mon. Jan. 13, 2009 @ 3:51pm. (Jabez J.)
"You're pretty awesome you know that? :-D"
"You just are. Like I look at you . You're obviously smart and outgoing. Beautiful. But much greater. You want to be a better person. You're TRYING to be a better person. You are going to make an incredible wife someday. The qualities you posses are just to good for the right one not to find you:)"

That is the sweetest thing I have heard in a very long time...from a guy! We as females tell each other how great we are, and how any guy would be stupid to pass us up. We say these things to cheer each other up and make each other feel better when the really hot, nice guy acts up or turns us down! Now I am not saying that we do not mean these things when we say them but its almost a must to hate the guy and take care of your girl. ... With that being said there's a difference hearing those words from a guy than one of your girls. Even if the guy is just a friend, its still nice to know as a female your doing something right to attract the opposite sex. At times it sounds crazy to need male "approval" but in order to reproduce, we need the male species to be attracted(and no drunk goggles do not count!.ha...cause as crazy as it sounds we kinda need a male for that process...or at least their sperm!) ... I am happy that I possess qualities that are incredible and worth pointing out! At 23yrs of age, I am sure my qualities can only get better!(at least I hope.) Thank you for the encouragement! :) ... P.S. Whoever said you can not meet great people/friends at the bar must not have been in the right bar!!! :)